Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Maya Angelou

Remember how I wrote in my last post about feeling listless and drained?  Well, in some ways that's still true, but in others, I am so fulfilled.  I have accepted a phenomenal opportunity with Homepolish  and I begin   next week.  It's a great position with a ton of freedom and plenty of room to make it my own and for that I feel truly lucky.  

But for when I am feeling more like I was two weeks ago, I hope I will think long and hard about the work of a Phenomenal Woman we lost today.  I'll leave you with something we should all remember when we have those listless and drained days.



"You can't use up creativity.  The more you use, the more you have."
Maya Angelou

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

So many job interviews, so few callbacks

Do you guys ever get so tired that you just are consistently living your life in autopilot?  Well that's where I'm at and I am trying my best to kick and scream and beat myself out of the funk.  Lots of job interviews and exciting prospects (which is good because boy, do I need a change) but no dice yet.  Let's all collectively take a quiet moment to pray that I get to move on to bigger an better things soon.



K thanks.  You done now?


Below are just a few images inspiring me right now, because copy-pasting is about all I have the time and energy for.  


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Right?  I think they're great too.

Thursday, April 24, 2014

Design Files

Will you look at this?  Now I had a pink room all the way through high school, but I have to say this puts mine to shame.  The three shades of coral (helped by the beautiful moldings)  combined with those perfect perfect blown glass lamps and the fabulous 70s dresser (read: flower knobs).  Wow.  Just wow.



Quick gripe though: gah, those nightstands. The pagoda tops with the inward-facing club feet?  Amazing.  That Pepto-Bismol paint color?  Not so much...and it could be so so good! Imagine them lilac, like below:




That would be killer here.  Otherwise A+ on this room!  And the peach storage bench?  I need that in my life, both because it is that great...simple, but great, and because I could use that storage for real.  

What's your favorite part of this room?


Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Work in Progress Wednesday: Quick Coffee Table Refresh

Good Morning Everybody!

Hope everyone's doing well so far this week!  I am surprised it's already Wednesday, but let's wait to see how I feel by Friday before I make any statements about how great things are going.  So a quick Work In Progress this week (better than none at all!) and I already have a few more projects in the works so the next few weeks should be good!

PS: I adopted two cats two weeks ago so I'm sorry I have been so distant but they are settling in so I think I shall be returning more often to the ole blog here.




So, as you may know, I got this Crate and Barrel coffee table off of CL for only $30!  WOO! But after living with it for a few months, I realized it just wasn't doing too much for me so I decided to give it a quick refresh with some paint last week.


(Forgive the mess: cats)


The bronze looks good, no?  And it had the unanticipated benefit of bringing out the orange of the rug!  And it's shiny, so there's that...




I am going to be painting in my apartment in the next few months so I am looking forward to that green in the rug coming out more when I paint the walls the same color.  It'll look bangin' with the orange/bronze and don't even get me started on the blue sideboard.  Future "before and afters" abound my friends!

Thursday, April 17, 2014

Some Good Advice



"one part how-to and two parts why-not"



Read this here and thought it's a pretty cool thing to think about, even beyond the DIY genre.




Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Design Files

Because this week has been a little too crazy for taste, I'm going to mix up the order on you (and just when I had sort of settled on a rhythm).  

So just in time for maybe spring (those of us in NYC are learning that apparently, you can never count of the first spring-like day), take a look-see at this beauty here.  I've had this kicking around for months and months and I am actually surprised it took me this long to post it for you, that's just how much I love it.  This image, originally (as far as I can tell) from Apartment Therapy is mighty nice.  That's how this room makes me feel!  I say things like "mighty" and "look-see."  First of all, tulips.  I just love fresh blooms of any sort, but a nice white tulip?  Perfection.

But now on to the good stuff.



Oh lord, those chenille chairs!  I grew up with chenille throws draped over my couches and damn, what a luxury it would be to have the whole dang thing upholstered in it!  Maybe one day, but definitely not today.  I imagine chenille is a pretty difficult upholstery fabric as far as upkeep goes.  Anybody have any experience?

After the sky blue chenille, I have to admit, the rest is just a wash.  A beautifully-curated, aesthetically pleasing wash, but c'mon, sky blue chenille!  I love how each of the art pieces pick up on the blue hues though and the pale blue walls offer a backdrop a touch warmer than stark white might be.  Don't believe me?  Imagine if the walls were the color of that flokati rug or the sofa?  A bit sterile, no?  Sky blue to the rescue.  

Speaking of the flokati rug, boy oh boy do I want one!  Can you just imagine how warm your little tootsies would be in the winter?  So good.  And the way things are looking today in New York, we might never get a spring so maybe this isn't such a bad investment.  But I imagine my rug would be filled with strands of hair and missing food particles pretty quickly.  Maybe when I become a grown-up... 

Monday, April 14, 2014

When is Stuff to Do Motivational and When does it Become Merely Anxiety-Inducing?

Around this time last year, I was speaking to a new friend and neighbor outlining all kinds of things I had on my to-do list at the moment.  At one point I said something to the effect of, "I just can't wait til I move so I can be settled and not have anything to do."  She laughed and chimed in that, move or not, I was the type of person who would always have something on the to do.  Fortunately or unfortunately, I have since realized that she is right and I am consistent and constant "do-er."

So when does the constant stream of things to do become overwhelming rather than keeping life appropriately busy?

For as long as I can remember I have been a list person.  Lists are the best.  I know this and say it publicly as fact.  Lists mean you won't forget anything and you have a feeling of even greater accomplishment when you get to see a former list all crossed out.  I start my week (often the Thursday or Friday before) by making a list of the coming week and include everything I know I have RSVP'd to or that I need to finish up.  I think this makes me feel secure, as I am often scatter-brained, knowing that I will accomplish everything I know needs to be completed.  These types of lists make me feel good.

But there are other types of lists that weigh at me, pulling energy from my psyche every time I glance at them.  These are the lists of projects I'd like to complete, debts I need to pay, etc. Basically lists that aren't immediately achievable.  These list wallow around for weeks (months) on end toying with my heart and sanity keeping me from feeling the sense of accomplishment that comes from crossing off the next thing.  I do make these lists because in the end I think it does help keep me on track, but I do not like them and I am trying to decide if they are, in fact, worth it.

But this post is not just about my literal lists.  I often take on more than I can chew and then have to handle the ramifications.  I'm sure none of you are silly enough to get caught in this trap...These are the metaphorical lists that rule my (our) head nooks and crannies when we'd like to be asleep at 2 AM, or those lame nagging things we need to think of before we drop everything to take a spontaneous weekend trip.  Namely, these are the things of adulthood and so far, I do not feel great about them.

But alas, that doesn't mean they'll end so I am trying to figure out how to make it work.  Namely, this week, I added to living and breathing things to my repertoire (no family, I did not have twins).  But these living things (spoiler alert: meow) are making my life a bit more complicated as far as scheduling goes.  I thought long and hard about this addition and while I know the good outweighs the bad, I am still feeling the gut-rumbling pangs of anxiety brewing in my belly.  What will happen when I'm away? How long can I leave them? What will they do to my couch when I'm not watching?  The last one is a very real fear but less important (truly).

While I thought of all these questions before I brought two animal carriers home, it has not stopped the anxiety.  I just signed up for things that could be around for the next two decades.  While it was easy to talk myself out of adoption with each of the above questions, I decided to really think where those feelings were coming from.  If "no" was coming from a place of true inability then that is something to be aware of.  But if "no" was coming from a place of unknown, as in, "I don't have to worry about those things now and thinking about them is so much more work than my current situation" then that's different.  Life will always be more work with a pet, with one job, with same old same old day in and day out.  But that'll get old pretty quickly.

So like so many of these posts, there is no happy ending here.  I have not become all-knowing after 5 days of cat ownership.  I do know that if I am consistently without plans or projects for too long, I become lazy and depressed and I am learning that weeks on end with no break in sight gives me headaches and makes me anxious enough to vomit.  Guess I'm going to have to figure out a middle...